Monday, October 15, 2012

Flaunt the Bump

I know this is a blog post that spans about two decades of change in dressing pregnant women, so the message might seem a bit overdone. Regardless, It still comes up with me so I thought I would address it. 

It still shocks my mom how I dress my tummy.  Mainly that I don’t swath it in drapey layers and patterns to try and hide my shocking condition;).  But what other time in your life can you celebrate weight gain with such flourish?  I find that on the days I don’t flaunt it I get strange looks from people, like they are trying to figure out exactly what’s going on with me.  The old “fat or pregnant?” question flashes across their expressions and it’s just awkward for everyone.  So instead of letting the people around me suffer I make it pretty apparent what’s going on with me, tight tops, high waists, hands on top of tummy, the whole shebang.  I am just a kind person that way;)

There are several ways to flaunt the bump:

Tightly swathed:
This can be done with a dress or tighter shirt, you can layer on top but as long as the tummy stays apparent it still gives the look that you want.

High Waist:
This can be accomplished in a shirt or a skirt, just as long as you keep either your legs or your top portion looking small with tight sleeves or pants.

Here I kind of did a combination, a tight maxi dress with a crop top that I made sure to tie a bit so it didn't undo all of my work of showing off the belly.  Just a fun combo for fall, I am loving the colors going on right now!

{Shirt: F21 $10, Dress: Gap $30, Necklace: Apricot Lane Boutique $15, Shoes: Minnetonka $50}

Monday, October 8, 2012

Ultimate Quiet Book...

After seeing so many amazing "quiet books" on the wonderful world of Pintrest and seeing the amazing job my sister in law did making one for my daughter I was inspired to try my hand at the craft.  I drew from a few different resources, but my main muse was this adorable clothing fastenings quiet book from "Forty-two Roads".  It appealed to me mainly because I don't know how to put in a zipper yet (I know, I'm lame) but I thought, "what better way to cheat having to put in my own fastenings then to take apart old clothing?".

I had a lot of fun doing this, it didn't actually take me too long either.  Maybe a couple of obsessed sewing days;). I lined each page with fleece that I had left over from a car-seat cover I made for Lucy a million years ago.  All the pages were out of random scrap fabric I had lying around.   I cut them out using a 12 x12 scrapbook piece of paper as a pattern.  I also used some felt I already had (who doesn't just have tons of that lying around?  I always do)  The only thing I had to purchase for this book was some velcro for the fastening around the book and the number buttons as well as some iron-ons and a few pieces of thrifted baby clothing.  The total cost came to about eight dollars!  Not too shabby!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Lucy's Style

"This shirt hurt's Mommy" my daughter says as I take out my choice of shirt for the day. Before I can get too worried and inspect the shirt for hidden weapons, she rummages around and brings out another, "this shirt is cute, that shirt hurts".  Ah, I see, her sensibilities are "hurt" by my option.  Funny girl.

Dressing a kid is a learning process.  I love it and hate it. First off, when it comes to sizing I have to put it down to a science and formula that seems to be ever-changing. My daughter is very tall and lithe, so fitting her is really hard.  I have to decide what is more important, length or width.  I will give you a bit of information on the different stores I have gotten to know so far:

Target and Old Navy: Short and Lean (the "lean" tends to vary to wide here)
Gymboree: Short and Wide
Gap: Long and Lean
Children's Place: Long and Average
JcPenney's and Macy's: Average
Walmart: Short and Average

As you can see the only store that fits Lucy's proportions is the "baby gap". This is great, except that I only shop there when they are having amazing sales (remember, poor here) and I can't limit myself to one store anyway.   The way I solve this is by deciding what proportions on outfits are okay.  Shirts can be loose if they are paired with a skinnier jean or legging, pants or skirts can be blousy if I pair them with a tighter shirt.  (These are rules I use for dressing myself too except that her's is more out of necessity then figure flattering.) Also with length, it's okay to have a longer, bigger shirt over tighter bottoms or a shorter and wider top if it's a jacket. For example, shirts can come from Children's Place as long as they can be with some leggings from the Gap, etc.   

Dressing kids is also about having fun!  I love pairing colors and patterns together that normally I would be too intimidated to do on myself.  I don't really like to look like I'm trying to be a preschooler;). Putting a cool stripe with a floral or mixing all sorts of textures and bright colors can be so fun.  I also have to hold back a little bit because I have gotten the comment before that "she did such a great job dressing herself today"...yeah.  So it's a balance definitely, but I love to stretch myself with what I put on her, why not?!

If I let my daughter dress herself though she would look like a homeless clown.  This is why I have to make her think certain outfits are her idea.  "You love this shirt, huh?" or "let's try this different shirt with that and you go look in the mirror and see what you think" or "Ohhh, this shirt is purple and these leggings have flowers!" Thankfully my switching tactics and positive projections have worked so far.  If nothing else they will give her a good foundation to look back on when she get's her brain back after college;P.

When I first had Lucy I just thought all babies dressed alike and that you could buy whatever size as long as they were that age because all babies were roughly the same shape.  That couldn't be farther from the truth.  Kid's looks go well with different styles and body types can be so different then the clothes you try to dress them in.  I have also learned that dressing a kid is a great opportunity to express not only your own style (in an avant-garde sort of way) but also your kid's.  My daughter is very artistic, she loves different colors and has very adult looks so I like to bring that out in her clothes.

{This is my first fall outfit for Lucy, the sweater and the boots were a bit of an investment but even kids get investment pieces and how could I say no to that sweet sweater, lot's of sales and couponing on this outfit! Sweater: gymboree $20, tank: old navy $5, skirt: oshkosh outlet $3, tights (seen above) gymboree $4, boots: children's place $25, headband: Bella's Boutique $2}